Teen Pregnancy Options

What are my Teenage Pregnancy Options in New York?

 

If you have found this page, you are likely a teenager, pregnant, and you are considering adoption. We know you are probably feeling scared and overwhelmed. Even though it feels like your world is falling down around you, you have options! Having an unplanned pregnancy means that you will have to decide whether to parent, plan an adoption for your baby, or you may even be considering an abortion. Adoption Choices of New York is a full-service adoption center that helps pregnant teens like you who are considering adoption. We will help you make the best decision for you, answer questions, and provide information no matter what you decide. If and when you’re ready to choose adoption, we will help you create an adoption plan, pick the adoptive family, choose the level of openness you want with the adoptive family and your child, build a hospital birth plan, and provide assistance and support throughout your pregnancy and after the adoption is final.

Discovering you are pregnant when you are not ready to be a mother can come as a shock that can overwhelm you with feelings of dread, regret, and isolation. As reality sets in, you need a space where you can process your feelings. You need a space where you can explore all your options and map out a plan of action. You need a space that is free of judgment and where you can find support at all times. At Adoption Choices of New York, we can provide all of these things and more at no cost to you. All you need to do is reach out to us to get the help you need.

Teenage pregnancy? Call now to discuss adoption options

Teen Pregnancy and Parenting

 

Parenting is an option for an unplanned teen pregnancy. Parenting as a teenager means a lot of juggling and life balance — school, social activities, potentially working, preparing for college and keeping up with a baby are multiple full time jobs. It may not be the most ideal situation for a teenager but it is possible. Right now, you are likely unsure if you are ready to be a parent. We Adoption Choices of New York is here to go over all your options, including parenting, to ensure the best decision for you and your baby. As a pregnant teen considering parenting, think about your financial situation, living conditions, education, college, and work commitments, support system, medical and health care, childcare, the baby’s father, and the responsibilities of being a young parent. 

Teen Pregnancy and Adoption

 

If you are not ready to be a parent, adoption is an option for an unplanned teen pregnancy. Choosing adoption is an adult decision so it’s tough when a teenager has to make this choice. But know, it is your choice. You should never feel pressured by your parents, baby’s father, nor an adoption agency to place your unborn child for adoption. Get as much information as you can on the reality of parenting vs. adoption so you can make an educated decision, the best decision for yourself and your baby. TV makes teen pregnancies and raising babies fun and easy. Reality is not made for tv…raising a child is hard work, expensive, and takes a toll on all aspects of your life — especially as a teenager. When you choose adoption with Adoption Choices of New York adoption center, you are in charge of your adoption plan. You can choose the adoptive family, choose to maintain a relationship with your child in the future, and make decisions regarding your NY adoption plan. 

Teen Pregnancy and Abortion

 

Perhaps the “go to” choices for an unplanned teen pregnancy may be the most difficult one. Often the guilt a young woman has lives on for many many years. Again, an option that is your choice, realize that there are laws restricting teens access to abortion — and depending how far along you are in your pregnancy, it might no longer be an option. Our compassionate staff will provide you with information — the realities of choosing abortion vs. the realities of parenting and/or choosing adoption. Only you can make the best decision for yourself and your unborn baby. No one should pressure you into making a decision about your pregnancy, no matter what. 

teen unplanned pregnancy New YorkWhy is Adoption a Good Choice for Teenage Pregnancy?

If you are a pregnant teenager who has stumbled upon this post and is considering the idea of adoption, know that our agency, Adoption Choices of NewYork, will help you understand how your beautiful choice of adoption may be a good option for you and your baby. Adoption might allow your child a chance at a better life and great opportunities than you may be able to provide at this time in your life, and that’s okay! Placing your child up for adoption as a teen mother might enable you to finish certain life goals, like graduate high school, attend college if you wish in the future, and become a parent later in life if you want. 

Choosing adoption as a pregnant teenager may seem scary but know, that you will have the support of your parents or a trusted adult, like your adoption caseworker. In addition, adoption provides you with many positive experiences, like sharing your story, still knowing and forming a close bond with your child, and many other positive benefits, along the way. No matter what road in life you choose, your choice of adoption is one of selflessness, sacrifice, and love.

teen pregnant NY telling parentsHow do I tell my parents that I’m pregnant?

Dealing with an unplanned pregnancy at any age can be scary. Being a teenager still living under your parent’s roof adds a new level of challenge to the game. Telling your parents that you’re pregnant is one of those things that every girl fears the most. You hope you never have to have that conversation, but sometimes, life happens. Although the number of teenage pregnancies in the U.S. has decreased in the last decade or so, the American sexual education system isn’t perfect, and accidents happen. If you’re not ready to tell your parents, our professional and compassionate staff at Adoption Choices of New York are here for you 24/7. Although we are an adoption agency, we will never pressure you into choosing adoption. We offer 100% confidentiality and never pressure you, judge your choices, nor discriminate. We’ll help you understand all of your options and some helpful ways to approach breaking the news to your parents. An unplanned pregnancy as a teenager is scary, but we promise it’ll all work out, and you don’t have to do it alone. 

If you’re too scared to tell your parents, practice telling someone else, you trust first. Writing a letter, practicing what you’ll say in the mirror, and having someone supportive with you can also help. Even if you’re close with your parents and usually talk to them about everything, revealing an unplanned pregnancy can feel like a whole different ball game. It’s okay to be scared, and it’s okay to feel whatever it is you’re feeling. Just remember, you are not alone. Help and support is just one call or text away at Call 24/7: 800-505-8592 | 518-478-8420 

 

teen pregnant telling boyfriend NY.jpgHow do I tell the baby’s father that I’m pregnant?

When you first learned you were pregnant, you probably felt shocked, scared, and overwhelmed. After some time processing your own emotions and reactions, one of your biggest concerns might be telling the baby’s father. There is no doubt that will be a hard conversation – especially as a teen; these three tips can help this conversation go more smoothly. 

  1. Pick the right time and place. Set aside the time to have a full conversation, in a private setting, in person. If you’re scared about his reaction, having a trusted close friend (or parent), there might help. Avoid telling him in public, by text or by social media.
  2. Be honest and direct. Hints or subtlety do not work well for important conversations like this.
  3. Give him time and space. Remember how hard this information was when you first learned it. It will likely take him some time to work through this huge news as well.

Pregnancy is an adult situation that requires an adult response. That can be very challenging if you aren’t an adult yet! But telling the baby’s father & doing it in a mature way gives you the best chance for a positive outcome. 

 

Teen Pregnancy Options | Call now to discuss Adoption

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We are not shutting down during this difficult time! We are fully devoted and available to all pregnant women and birth parents that are looking at adoption as an option. We will also continue to work with prospective adoptive parents who are already a part of our program. If you are a prospective adoptive parent hoping to apply to our program, we are accepting applications and doing Homestudy now.

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